Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Reb Mendel - What is a farbrengen parts 1-4

 


Part 1

Part 2


Part 3 


Part 4



1)  Letter of Rebbe in 1953

Igros Kodesh (Vol. 7, page 58 – free translation):

"In my opinion, the current situation differs from the situation of previous generations, when it was a widespread custom to drink mashke in abundance, in two ways:

a) The ability is now given to Anash, through the availability of numerous basic maamarim and sichos which the listeners can understand, for their conduct to be inspired without the need for much mashke; just a little will suffice.

b) Since in most recent times we are all required to spread the wellsprings of Chassidus outward, there is the possibility that an overabundance of mashke could greatly interfere…

My first statement is supported by something I once heard from the Rebbe, my father-in-law, in Riga, who said, "Ich bin itzter (and the meaning of ‘itzter’[now] was not for that time only, but for those years since then, when they began to minimize the consumption of mashke) vi noch a bisele mashke." (I am now as though after a little mashke.) The Chassidim are drawn after the Rebbe, my father-in-law, and his intention in saying that he is now as though after a little mashke is to instruct all the Chassidim and give them the ability to be in that condition."


Original Takanah Shmini 1963
Mashke is mous - repulsive --Rebbe Rayatz

Even kiddush should be on wine and you should not finish who cup.



2)  On Chukas 1991 the Rebbe said it is a 'decree' not to drink more then four.




3)  Yechidus with Zalman Jaffe
During another yechidus before leaving, Reb Zalman presented the Rebbe with five bottle of “mashke” (an alcoholic beverage) that the Rebbe could distribute at a farbrengen. The Rebbe asked him “at which one.” He replied “Any one. It is for the Rebbe to give to whomever he wishes.” The Rebbe asked “Is it from Manchester?” “No,” Reb Zalman replied, “from me. Surely the Rebbe can find some deserving person or cause to whom to give the “mashke.”
The Rebbe admitted that he had stopped giving “mashke” at the farbrengen because “it gout out of hand.”
Reb Zalman told the Rebbe that though he appreciates receiving from the Rebbe’s cake, the “mashke” lasted longer and was easier to distribute back in Manchaster, as the cake became hard and stale after a week.
The Rebbe wanted to know if there were any special reason that he had brought five bottles.
Reb Zalman replied: “Not really, but the U.S. Customs allows us to bring in five bottles free of duty.”
“What will I do with five bottles,” asked the Rebbe.
“Take them home,” Reb Zalman replied.
“But I don’t like vodka,” answered the Rebbe.
The Rebbe then thanked Reb Zalman for coming to see him. “Mr. Jaffe, I thank you for coming to see me!”



3)  No Mashke on Simchas Torah
See Sicha Noach 1967 
See Sicha Balak 1984



4)  Not My Shliach - Applies to older adults as well
In 1965 the rebbe said if you over drink you are not my shluchim and the rebbe says this applies to everyone even older adults

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5)  Tikun for over drinking
Rabbi Aharon Eliezer Tzeitlin adds: The significance attributed by the Rebbe to the observance of the takana of mashke is proven by the following story – in which I was directly involved.
When I was learning in yesihiva in Montreal, a few Tmimim, including myself, made a farbrengen (in the winter of 5733 [1973]) and drank 4 big cups of mashke – not within the Rebbe’s limit. When the mashpia, R’ Yitzchak Meir Gurary, found out about it, he called me over and asked, "How could it be that you transgressed the g’zera like that? Didn’t the Rebbe say that whoever transgresses the g’zera cannot go on shlichus?" The words entered my heart because our whole ambition was to merit to be a shliach of the Rebbe, and here I was endangering my shlichus myself. Therefore, immediately at the first opportunity I wrote to the Rebbe and requested a tikkun. I went to 770 close to Yud Shvat, and when I came to the secretariat, Rabbi Binyomin Klein gave me an answer from the Rebbe about the note I had written: "He should learn 3-4 maamarim of my father-in-law by heart; at the very least, the contents. Askir al ha’tzion."
I immediately asked (through the secretary) if I am ready to go on the shlichus of the Rebbe to Australia. [At that time, the Rebbe chose the ones who went and asked them for their consent.] As you know, the answer was in the affirmative.
It seems to me that perhaps all of this (asking for a tikkun, etc.) restored my z’chus at the last minute to go on shlichus.

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6)  Rabbi Manis Friedman discusses what happens if you say no L'chaim



7)  Forum on this topic